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my relationship with my mom is pretty complicated, but at the end of the day, i do love her. unfortunately my experience with her was pretty typical: she was a bit of a narcissist, i was her first kid, she hurt me a lot but things are better now that i'm a bit older. what can you do, y'know? honestly looking back some of our interactions were just funny because i was very young, like 8-12, and she had serioius beef with me. like one time we got into a fight after going to the movies, and i told her i'd rip up the photo strip we got together, and she told me to go ahead! so obviously i did it lol. OR when we were having an argument and she was pinning me down on my bed ... (idk what necessitated this) but i was like "get ur paws off me >:(" (i remember deliberating on this statement for a while bc i thought it was so cool) and she was like god damn it i should havenever let you watch littlest pet shop. she was pretty crunchy and i didn't have access to a lot of TV and stuff, she thought spongebob would make me dumb. she got mad at me when i read books because she thought i became ' too sassy' because of the main characters. and one time we were shopping for bathing suits and i wanted a leapord print one, but she thoguht it was 'too sexy.' many such cases. slightly disturbing but funny honeslty. the distance between us has curbed most of my lingering resentment.